STOP WORRYING ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE GET A LIFE!

                  Hello everyone this is going to be a quick up date for fun but very real,  ok lets start, why are people so worried about other people now in days?? people that don't even know them? HELLO get a life lol I find the internet sickos to be the craziest  lol how do people speak on other people that they don't know personally like they have met them in person or had a phone convo with them or know them or there family? say it with me (obsessed sickos lol) why are people worried about another persons race/mixture? don't worry about it its not hurting u because of what they are, hmmm or is it because you are jealous? may be a question you may want to ask your self then seek help. Then you have the people that do know the person not really on a personal level  but still worrying about that persons every move.  Lol if you put all that energy that you put in worrying about another person, applied it to your life you would be unstoppable lol You may even have so much going on you don't have the time to worry about someone else(MESSAGE!) so with that said get a clue do u and stop worrying about other people and get a life! a life outside of the internet! a life out side of who's butt is bigger than who's! who dresses better ! who looks better! who has more money! GET A LIFE SO YOU CAN DO MORE WITH YOUR LIFE INSTEAD OF WORRYING ABOUT SOMEONE ELSES LOL that's all kids until next time worry about yourself:) lol

IS THERE JUSTICE FOR TRAYVON MARTIN?

      How do I begin, what happen to young Trayvon is beyond sad, but its a wake up call to lets us know that we have not come that far from the days of Malcom X and Dr King. Where does his family find justice? from the law or from us? For the last few weeks all kinds of rally's have taken place for Trayvon, I even went to a rally with two of my best friends Quaron and Bre. It felt good to stand for something worth standing for(Trayvon), but what has it accomplished for Trayvon or his family? Trayvon's killer is still free,  breathing able to sleep at night in a warm bed,  Able to think about the wrong choices he made, while Trayon is 6 feet under dirt, not able to have a voice in the matter. When will Trayvon finally get his justice? You cant help but look at the situation and say if Trayon had been a under aged teen and had killed his killer would he have been in jail although his reason for shooting was self defense? My answer is YES , because Trayvons dad wasn't a judge also he wouldn't have people on the inside covering up the facts. Trayvons killer  even has supporters, how can you support a man that killed a child, A child with candy and tea, how can anyone with a soul justify this? Any time the media brings up what Trayon had done in school that week or brings up that he looked much older than the picture the news flashes of him lets us know that we live in a very evil corrupted world. The fact of the matter is Trayon was stalked because he was black, if trayvon had been a white teen male in the same neighborhood would the story had ended the same with his cold blooded killer? Even if Trayvons killer does finally go to jail, Trayvon  is not coming back, he lost his life, a life that he could have  become all of the things he dreamed of being but it was ripped away from him from a adult who thought he was a bad person because he was black with a hoody on. So will Trayvon or we as the face of Trayvon ever have justice? Don't ever for get Trayvon, Trayvon represents more than snapping pictures in a hoody TRAYVON represents you -me and the future to come. LET OUR CHILDREN GROW

TIPS FOR BEAUTY CARE:)

              Sorry you guys i know this is late, you have been asking me for my beauty update, well here it is nice and simple but very helpful.   Ok  for my face I have been using my Aveeno pore facial wash, it is amazing for getting deep in those pores. Next i use a Aveeno facial scrub once a week to remove dead skin, I use a sun block face lotion every day. HAIR HAIR HAIR since you all love my hair, thank you so much flattered you do. I use a sulfate FREE hair shampoo, as long as it doesn't have that and mostly all NATURAL ingredients it works for me. You can find those kind of shampoos at places like walgreens. Next i condition with organ oil conditioner, put in a leave in conditioner then seal with all Natural Olive Oil. When getting your hair healthy you want to make sure the products you are using does not have MINERAL OIL or PETROLEUM in it. These ingredients are very bad for ethic hair, it clogs the hair scalp and prevents moisture from getting into the hair strands. So be careful, read what you are buying. As you know i don't wear makeup unless i have to while working, it doesn't agree with my skin, when ever i have had to wear makeup by a hour later i am left with at least two white zits lol gross so for my makeup I like to wear lip gloss in a neutral color, i put olive oil on my eyelashes and I am ready to go.  There you guys i gave you the long waited update hope it helps you:)

IF YOUR A HATER OWN UP TO IT! lol

If you do this i hate to break the news you are a hater:(
(1) if you go out your way to speak negative about someone when people are speaking positive about the person.
(2) if all you do is sub tweet about the person but say oh i am not a hater but i am keeping it real lol
(3) if you go under fake names when you see this person posted on sites to hate but you don't have enough heart to say it with your real name.
(4) if you feel like you have something to prove to this person that does not even know you take breaths or doesn't really care if you do.
(5) if you try your best to discredit a person no matter how great they seem to others.
(6) If the thought of this person messes your day up, when u dont know this person on a personal level u are  not a hater u need real help from a doctor lol
(7) If you say a person is not all that but most people say they are  u may be hating lol
(8) if you point out peoples flaws every chance u get.
(9) down playing another person success

 Now if you realize you have done some of these things its ok the firs step is admitting you have a problem then u can began to seek real help because being a hater is very bad for your health.

LOVE DOESN'T HURT OR MAKE YOU QUESTION IT, OR ITS NOT REAL

 Now in days people use the word love, i love you like they are saying a name. Real love does not hurt or make you question it, real love makes you feel secure with yourself. Real love is not a game, when someone really love you you will know it, Its a feeling, not just something that sounds good to say. Its the risk the person is willing to take with you, real love does not judge you or leave you for dead. Real love is loyal. It sounds easy? well the sad part is people spend there entire life looking for someone to realy love and that really loves them back, and most never find it no matter how hard they search. So they settle for what they call feel like love.You dont have to force someone to love you that really loves you, you dont have to beg them for help because they are already offering a helping hand. Real love is a beautiful feeling that sometimes only comes one time around in a life time, when someone really loves you they dont want to hurt you, your feelings matter to them. Though it all may sound simpple there  are people in relationships right now that cant say that this is the treatment that they are getting from the person they love.In the game of love you must study hard to past the test when it is put in front of you:)

REAL MEN DONT GOSSIP

                         This is by no means to bash men, but this has  been going on for a while,  when did men enjoy gossip so much? when did men hate on another women to a women to impress her? when did men make up things to say or repeat a convos  they had with another person?  I just have taken notice that some men have really changed when it comes to being a mans man. Take me as a example, when some men  want to impress me they talk bad about how they dont like  a women with weave  that wears makeup and fake eyelashes and has had plastic surgery. They belive in there mind this is going to impress me because i am the total opposite of that kind of women they are throwing under the bus, but to be real when you check the women they have dated in the past they have dated the exact kind of women they are screaming they dont like. (LAME)  When  a man wants to impress a women, be yourself and be real dont talk bad about a women to her, that looks catty and is not manly. Women look at men to protect them and make her feel beautiful in her skin to be loyal. Not to have the same kind of relationship she has with the girls.  If men dont go back to be a mans man we are all screwed, just like the world needs Good women  the world is doomed with out a Real Man.

NOTHING GOOD COMES EASY

    We all want things to happen fast and easy, and most things that are really not that important or long term comes quick and easy and goes fast. In life as we grow older we will understand the term more better that quick is not always best for us. Have you ever rushed to make dinner and your food turned out nasty? but when you took time and effort the meal was great? have you ever got dress qick and rushed out the door and realized how terrible the outfit was? but it was to late you where stuck wearing it that day. Its just like our lives we rush into things and the fail quick. We rush into relationships and really dont know anything about the person we are in a relationship with, then we end up with regret. Life is short but dont rush every moment, they feel better when you take the time to rember what it felt like to get where you are, when you reach your goal. Or what you had to go through to find the perosn you are in love with that is inlove with you. The quick moments dont last, time building last forever and long term:)